I’m sorry but what you have said here is absolutely appalling. We do not live in a dictatorship this is a forum where you can select several reasons for posting. Unfortunately people CAN post whatever they want.BabyTwinkletoes said:Exactly and proves you have no consideration for others!!! The friends/women that comment on your posts giving you support all the time…what support do you give them… im so sorry your period arrived but heres a bump photo of myself!! i can post what i want. Sounds childish!! Thats my point, by ignoring it the problem isnt solved cause someone else posts loads of stuff in a row, so im happy that you can just skip a post, but it isnt that simple for others, they want to give the pregnant person support even if its upsetting for themselves. Thats the point im making they are such nice people they are there for you and in return people post so much pregnancy stuff that messes with their mental health, but thats fine isnt it cause you can post whatever you like!! There are people on here who post shit loads of stuff… its a TTC group not a pregnancy group. GO FIND A PREGNANCY GROUP to post silly questions ect. I never said no one can post anything, do an update ect but not post after post after post… i just find it a little insensitive that some people on here and i DONT MEAN EVERYONE doesn’t give a shit how other people feel or that they were in that situation once themselves and how posting post after post after post…. And i dont mean one , two a week its 3 a day. Thats the point im making here, thats the whole point of my post, loads and loads of posts in a day or week isnt needed, its has nothing to do with how long you have been on here… ive been on here 6 years and what!? Doesnt make it okay for me to put myself before others or make other peoples feelings invalid. Some people have been on here way longer then you and still aren’t pregnant so i still dont feel the need to be insensitive and post shit loads of posts rubbing it in the other ladies faces they aren’t pregnant yet. Like i said all of them women are happy for you im happy for you, honestly myself included. ive had 2 miscarriages in the last 6 months and took me almost 3 years to conceive the first baby, i know what that feels like most women on here knows what that feels like, so i know not to post everything i have friends and family to share that with… LIKE I SAID THEY ARE OVER THE MOON FOR YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE WHOS GOT THEIR BFP BUT DOESNT MEAN THEY WANT OR SHOULD HAVE EVERYTHING YOU DO SHOVED IN THERE FACE!! its not as simple as dont open the post, half the women on here open the post cause they do care about you ect and thats why they comment and give you support but when they see the same usernames post over and over again its not very nice, everyones feelings on this group counts!!!!!
I’m sorry hun I’m just reading this now xxxWildflowermm said:Have had a third miscarriage ... just thought I'd update