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  • Our rainbow Tony he is 2 weeks away from being 6 months & son Arthur whos 7 we r complete x

    So cute congrats on your lovely family  <3
    Hopefully34
  • A reminder For people who are pregnant!

    Exactly and proves you have no consideration for others!!! The friends/women that comment on your posts giving you support all the time…what support do you give them… im so sorry your period arrived but heres a bump photo of myself!!  i can post what i want. Sounds childish!!  Thats my point, by ignoring it the problem isnt solved cause someone else posts loads of stuff in a row, so im happy that you can just skip a post, but it isnt that simple for others, they want to give the pregnant person support even if its upsetting for themselves. Thats the point im making they are such nice people they are there for you and in return people post so much pregnancy stuff that messes with their mental health, but thats fine isnt it cause you can post whatever you like!!  There are people on here who post shit loads of stuff…  its a TTC group not a pregnancy group. GO FIND A PREGNANCY GROUP to post silly questions ect. I never said no one can post anything, do an update ect but not post after post after post… i just find it a little insensitive that some people on here and i DONT MEAN EVERYONE doesn’t give a shit how other people feel or that they were in that situation once themselves and how posting post after post after post…. And i dont mean one , two a week its 3 a day. Thats the point im making here, thats the whole point of my post, loads and loads of posts in a day or week isnt needed, its has nothing to do with how long you have been on here… ive been on here 6 years and what!? Doesnt make it okay for me to put myself before others or make other peoples feelings invalid.  Some people have been on here way longer then you and still aren’t pregnant so i still dont feel the need to be insensitive and post shit loads of posts rubbing it in the other ladies faces they aren’t pregnant yet. Like i said all of them women are happy for you im happy for you, honestly myself included. ive had 2 miscarriages in the last 6 months and took me almost 3 years to conceive the first baby, i know what that feels like most women on here knows what that feels like, so i know not to post everything i have friends and family to share that with… LIKE I SAID THEY ARE OVER THE MOON FOR YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE WHOS GOT THEIR BFP BUT DOESNT MEAN THEY WANT OR SHOULD HAVE EVERYTHING YOU DO SHOVED IN THERE FACE!! its not as simple as dont open the post, half the women on here open the post cause they do care about you ect and thats why they comment and give you support but when they see the same usernames post over and over again its not very nice, everyones feelings on this group counts!!!!!  
    I’m sorry but what you have said here is absolutely appalling. We do not live in a dictatorship this is a forum where you can select several reasons for posting. Unfortunately people CAN post whatever they want.

    i lost 2 babies over the last 3 years and yes it was hard coming back on here and I actively chose to take time out because it was hard seeing everyone’a BFP. That was my choice. I needed that for my own healing. And when I lost my babies people on here were respectful and helpful. They helped me through that healing process when I couldn’t quite talk to my family who were hurting too. Then I took time out. It’s everyone’s support during the lows that made me feel able to come back here and announce when times got better for me - some even shed tears of happiness with me when I got a BFP that’s how I’ve always known this site. It’s been a lifeline to me over the last 3 years. 

    i would never dream of coming on here and suggesting someone has no consideration for others. It’s a forum, how dare you. Unfortunately this site isn’t monitored by admin as far as I am aware but if it was I’d be asking this post is removed. 
    TF3LuckyMommy0329
  • Should I be worried... line progression

    Have had a third miscarriage ... just thought I'd update 
    I’m sorry hun I’m just reading this now xxx
  • Update just waiting now xxx

    Good luck Hun won’t be long now xxx
  • General update - 24 weeks :-)

    Ive been away for a while as I updated my iphone and couldnt reply to any posts! Then realised it works if i click bold lol

    I’m now 24 weeks - hubby felt our little boy kick for the first time last night! Ive been struggling a bit with pelvic pain (which i can be accessed for physio but the clinic times are a really bad clash with my work) luckily baby has moved position this week and its taken some pressure off.

    Im having another 3D/4D scan at 31 weeks.... i feel hugeee at the moment haha. 

    Got the midwife this week and the nursery furniture has started to go up 
    :) sleep is massively hit & miss.

    I hope everyone is doing well - I’m looking forward to Christmas with my little boy being due end of Jan I break up just after the New Year. Hoping to take a year off work and throw myself into my new job as a mum xxx

    Edit - for any UK mums currently on maternity leave my sister in law has just recommended an app to me called Mush- it’s like a social networking app for mums in your area. so if you’re at a loose end or on maternity and need some company there are other mums on there all looking at the same. It seems really good!
    Owenroo
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